Re: Get Your Grump on Thursdays - Was (What's chapping my @ss today?)

Originally Posted by
UnfilteredDregs
I'll let you know you know.
I've always had to be the heavy and I kind of resent it but no matter how much I've tried to get Mom to step up to the plate she falls short and allows for triangulation. Feels guilty. Kids need framework. I'm actually step-dad since she's three so I've had to be inventive. We get along amazingly well, I'm Dad, she's said so herself. Bio-Dad is a real POS, she took out a restraining order against him some time ago ... I've always fostered the idea to intellectually challenge things soooo, she possesses a lot of moxie and sometimes gets really big for her britches. I will not coddle those moments. If she wants to put on her big girl pants I'm more than ready to put on my big boy pants.
Bottom line is those with no consideration for others need to learn what it feels like, perspective. Big ego. So... Stay tuned to see if there's been a lesson learned. She's been very scarce lately soooo, I'm sure the lightbulb has fizzled on.
Good luck, and for perspective, at least she's not a former stripper who was impregnated by a heroin addict. Don't ask how I know such pain. But I love my grandson to the moon and back.
Best Regards,
Jason Curtis
FoCo, CO
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